Are older generations necessarily better than younger
generations?
This
question has been tugging at me because I have always heard older people
telling us, the younger ones, that today’s youth have become way too wayward in
terms of character/personality formation, aspirations, desires, and interests.
I am sure, just like me, you have heard your parents and grandparents reminisce
(and loudly at that!) how they used to be, and how things used to be during
their time. I am sure too that you have heard older folks (even those other
than your parents and grandparents) compare today’s youth with the youth
(meaning, them) of yesteryears.
Are
we really different now as compared to our folks? Or are we actually cut from
the same cloth--- only now with “extra trimmings and decorations?”
Many
youngish people out there can identify with the fact that parents and/or
grandparents would usually say how their characters had been forged through
hardships, how they had to pass various crucibles to be able to get what they
want, and how they had fought very hard for their goals and to be able to
arrive at where they are now. They would beguile us with tales of how they had
to walk several kilometers to get to school, that they (the grandparents, anyway)
had to study under the light of oil or gas lamps, that they had to stay with a
snooty relative in the Big City only to be treated like the household help, how
they had to wear hand-me-down clothes.
Contrastingly,
they would point out, today’s youngsters are complacent, lackadaisical, and
readily exhibits entitlement mentality. It is also pointed at that we get by
(or try to) with charm, quick fixes, superficiality, etc. In short, we lack
character.
One
is then constrained to ask: Is a cross-sectional comparison between our parents
and grandparents on the one hand and our selves on the other, warranted? Is
this at all fair?
The
milieu that we, today’s youth, are situated in is different from that of our
parents and grandparents. Today we are constantly and increasingly faced with
temptations and distractions which were not that rampant during our parents’
and grandparents’ time---advances in technology and communications, T.V.,
illicit substances, unique and multifarious forms of recreation, malls, etc. Of
course it would be stupid for a young person to easily succumb to these
temptations and distractions (but the possibility which is not at all
far-fetched). Resisting all these take much willpower and emotional strength.
To be able to focus on one’s path or goals unfettered by present-day
distractions may be said to be nothing short of amazing indeed. Our parents and
grandparents didn’t have the kind of distractions and temptations that we now
have.
It
may also be asserted that we are more critical (as in critical-minded as
opposed to griper). We question the status quo and we just don’t accept
paradigms, ideas, traditions and passed-on orientations as they are. (I do hope
this is really, really true of us, today’s youth.) This difference is actually good since questioning things and being
critical of the status quo is an avenue for progress. It is one way of
evolving, a way through which we can retain what is good and chuck the bad, of
separating the chaff from the grain (in a manner of speaking).
One
trait which cannot be used to describe today’s younger generation is timidity.
In fact, we are just the opposite---adventurous, brash, liberal, risqué even. I
am not quite sure if this is totally positive or totally negative. But for
sure, we are generally a bunch of risk-takers more so than were our parents and
grandparents.
It
would be unfair if we will be “judged” vis-à-vis our folks using the same
parameters or criteria. It’s like trying to pit plants versus zombies. (This is
just a popular culture reference. It is absolutely wrong to refer to our folks
as zombies, laughing out loud, wink wink, nudge nydge.) Okay, we might be the
same “banana” still just like them but we are now of a different hybrid. This
may not necessarily mean an improved version but we have acquired an entirely
unique set of traits all our own which are enough to set us apart from them. We
do not mean to (that is, be set apart from them) but we just are, we just have
been.
In
short, we are our own persons. And that is reason enough to celebrate our own
uniqueness.
[ I found this in my journal. Yes, i usually write in complete sentences and full essays in my journal. The accompanying video is Tomorrow's People by Lilet of the Coke/Coca-cola TVC, in English (above) and Tagalog (bottom) versions.]
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